May is a unique time in the life of a teacher. It is the Twilight Zone month of the school year – CRCT testing is over and “summeritis” swallows up the brain of 8th graders infecting them with the disease of apathetic laziness, a terrifying illness that seems to go to the very core of even the best and brightest students. I have only found one assignment during the month of May that perks up the ears of nearly every hormonal human being in my classroom: asking them to write about their teachers. This assignment is very specific. I ask these opinionated teenagers to tell me what advice they would give to educators based on on their experiences from their previous nine years of school. When I announce the writing topic, some begin scribbling away with a maniac, Dr. Hyde grin. Others in the class sit and ponder for a while, and after twirling their hair or biting their upper lip, a conclusion is drawn, and they too begin to write alongside their vindictive neighbors.
Perhaps these students never in the past got the green lit to talk honestly about their teachers and give advice. Perhaps the opportunity to tell authority what to do entices them. Perhaps the fact that someone older than them genuinely cares to know what they think and feel inspires them to write. Regardless of the why, my students produce some the most insightful ideas that seem to make more sense than any professional reading or college textbook. Below is what they shared with me this past May:
Don’t call out students publicly. My kids hate it when teachers harshly reprimand other students in the room in front of their peers. They prefer to be talked to privately.
Have classroom control. As much as students claim that all they want to have is a free period in which they can talk, play on their phones, and hang from the ceilings, deep down inside they really respect a teacher that maintains order and controls the class. They become frustrated when teachers don’t enforce rules and procedures enough or have so little planned that there is a large chunk of time in class with nothing for them to do.
Don’t give empty threats. Students are constantly watching to see if their teacher will have follow-through. When they see that we threaten something and it doesn’t happen, we lose authority in their eyes. They want to be able to trust that a teacher’s word is genuinely the final word.
Don’t let “fun” replace time to learn. Although students love a class that is fun and exciting, they also want to feel confident that they completely understand the nuts and bolts of our content. Many told me that giving notes or practicing concepts help them feel more secure, although it may not always be the most fun option.
Do not allow other students disrupt the classroom environment. Students get frustrated when one of their peers who continuously disrupts the learning environment isn’t appropriately disciplined. Although they often complain about teachers who enforce the rules, in the long run they appreciate that they can trust that the classroom can be a true learning environment.
Act like the professional that you are. There is a blurry boundary that exists when it comes to trying to be cool and relatable. Often, teachers, especially young ones like me, cross this line in an effort to make kids like us. Students have a sense of what a professional should act like, and when we take it too far in order to connect with the kids, our actions often do the opposite of what we intend. We lose authority in their eyes.
Don’t be sarcastic. Although a sarcastic comment can be quite hilarious, and many middle schoolers understand the wit that goes behind it, this particular form of humor can be a double-edged sword. Students can besensitive to such sharp remarks even if they appear to think it is funny.
Make class enjoyable. Learning should be fun and exciting. Students appreciate it when a teacher takes the time to present the curriculum in a way that engages them without watering it down.
Don’t gossip about the students. In a class discussion after my students submitted this advice, many of them shared with me that this issue in particular was the most important to them. In the hallways, teachers stand around and talk. May times our conversation is about students. There is a fine line between troubleshooting issues and just talking bad about kids. Teenagers are keenly observant and good listeners; often, they are much more aware of what we are saying than we think they are. It bothers them when we gossip just like they do.
Reading these wise words from my students was a very humbling experience. I have found myself guilty many times and was so grateful for their honesty. One of the things that makes a teacher great is, actually, being teachable herself.
Have you been in situations where students have helped you see something you’ve never seen before? Do any of these pearls of wisdom surprise you? Do you agree with this criticism?
Next week I will post NINE more pieces of advice that my students shared! Stay tuned!